The Key to Getting What You Want

How one hidden “block” kept on ruining my life for 30 years . . . And how everything changed in 67 days when I erased this “block” from my mind.

January 21, 2022
By Brian D. Ridgway

For 46 years, I never got what I wanted. I was depressed, lonely and broke. Yet when I nearly died, I finally found the real reason for my suffering.

Today, I call it . . . 

For 46 years, I never got what I wanted. I was depressed, lonely and broke.

Yet when I nearly died, I finally found the real reason for my suffering.

Today, I call it . . . 

The most overlooked insight in the entire self-help industry

I discovered it in January 2011. This single discovery became the ONLY thing that ever really worked, and it completely reinvented my life. In just 67 days, it took me from homeless and suicidal in a smoggy Van Nuys, CA - to living my dream in sunny Hawaii.

Brian D. Ridgway

Many people are struggling despite that they study self-help and do lots of inner work. I was like that, too, and after 46 years, I found out WHY it happened

And I’ve never worried about money, relationships or my health ever since.

Before that, I spent 46 years studying religions, self-help books, spiritual teachings and all sorts of resources created to help us change our lives. I’ve spent a mind-blowing sum of over $300,000 on all those products because I was desperate.

Yet I was constantly stuck in my massive hell on earth, never getting what I wanted.

I wanted to be happy. I wanted a woman that I could grow old with. I wanted to stop losing money and constantly going broke. I wanted to love myself and be loved. I wanted to smile and be an amazing father to my kids.

But I always received the exact opposite of it.

And I had no clue why.

I discovered it in January 2011. This single discovery became the ONLY thing that ever really worked, and it completely reinvented my life.

In just 67 days, it took me from homeless and suicidal in a smoggy Van Nuys, CA - to living my dream in sunny Hawaii.

The Key to Getting What We Want

Many people are struggling despite that they study self-help and do lots of inner work. I was like that, too, and after 46 years, I found out WHY it happened

And I’ve never worried about money, relationships or my health ever since.

Before that, I spent 46 years studying religions, self-help books, spiritual teachings and all sorts of resources created to help us change our lives.

I’ve spent a mind-blowing sum of over $300,000 on all those products because I was desperate.

Yet I was constantly stuck in my massive hell on earth, never getting what I wanted.

I wanted to be happy. I wanted a woman that I could grow old with.

I wanted to stop losing money and constantly going broke.

I wanted to love myself and be loved. I wanted to smile and be an amazing father to my kids.

But I always received the exact opposite of it.

And I had no clue why.

I nearly died, and . . .

In 2011, I lost all of my money and together with my pregnant wife and 2 young children, we were kicked out of our house.

This is when I couldn’t take it anymore. After years of contemplating suicide, I finally walked up the nearest bridge, got to the other side and felt into jumping off it, and end it all.

At that lowest point, that is when I found THE answer to my worries, struggles and misery.

Since that moment of insight, I used this very discovery to help over 160,361 from 84 countries to get what they REALLY wanted, fast and effortlessly.

These insights are so powerful that when I described them in my book, it became an overnight #1 international bestseller - and today it has over 300 5 star reviews on Amazon.

And in this article, I’ll show you the #1 discovery that made all the difference in my life. Before we get to my insight, let me introduce myself real quick.

Hi, I’m Brian D. Ridgway, #1 international author and speaker.

As I mentioned before, my guidance has helped over 160,361 people get what they want after decades of struggling.

Now, I want to help you.

In 2011, I lost all of my money and together with my pregnant wife and 2 young children, we were kicked out of our house.

This is when I couldn’t take it anymore.

After years of contemplating suicide, I finally walked up the nearest bridge, got to the other side and felt into jumping off it, and end it all.

At that lowest point, that is when I found THE answer to my worries, struggles and misery.

Since that moment of insight, I used this very discovery to help over 160,361 from 84 countries to get what they REALLY wanted, fast and effortlessly.

These insights are so powerful that when I described them in my book, it became an overnight #1 international bestseller - and today it has over 300 5 star reviews on Amazon.

And in this article, I’ll show you the #1 discovery that made all the difference in my life.

Before we get to my insight, let me introduce myself real quick.

Hi, I’m Brian D. Ridgway, #1 international author and speaker.

As I mentioned before, my guidance has helped over 160,361 people get what they want after decades of struggling.

Now, I want to help you.

The #1 “Block” that silently destroys our lives

So tell me, what happens when people focus on things they want?

Let’s say that there’s a lady named Sarah and she wants one million dollars. Does she instantly know what to do to make it show up in her account? Does she feel confident that she can have it with no doubts whatsoever? 

And, does she go out there and come back with the money in the bag so easily, like she just went to a bakery to get fresh bread?

Well, she does not.

Instead, she faces a colossal wall of stress, fear, anxiety and self-doubt. Sarah has no idea what to do to make a million bucks. She feels that she’ll never have it.

In the background, she feels that she doesn’t deserve it. That she’s not good enough. She fears she’ll lose friends and family if she does become rich. 

And she experiences a whole host of other unwanted feelings that “block” her.

I’d bet you feel a similar thing every time you think about something you really want. Your mind quickly comes up with hundreds of reasons why you can’t have it- mostly without you noticing it.

But here's something crazy: 

So tell me, what happens when people focus on things they want?

Let’s say that there’s a lady named Sarah and she wants one million dollars.

Does she instantly know what to do to make it show up in her account?

Does she feel confident that she can have it with no doubts whatsoever? 

And, does she go out there and come back with the money in the bag so easily, like she just went to a bakery to get fresh bread?

Well, she does not.

Instead, she faces a colossal wall of stress, fear, anxiety and self-doubt.

Sarah has no idea what to do to make a million bucks. She feels that she’ll never have it.

In the background, she feels that she doesn’t deserve it. That she’s not good enough.

She fears she’ll lose friends and family if she does become rich. 

And she experiences a whole host of other unwanted feelings that “block” her.

I’d bet you feel a similar thing every time you think about something you really want.

Your mind quickly comes up with hundreds of reasons why you can’t have it- mostly without you noticing it.

But here's something crazy: 

“Bad” feelings are GREAT!

All those feelings we experience when we focus on things we want, they’re our BEST FRIENDS!

Why? 

You see, when your car is broken, it shows you a warning light, right? You see it and you know it’s time to fix your car. 

Well, all these unwanted feelings are like these warning lights. Whenever we feel them, they tell us about the REAL reason why we’re not getting what we want. 

They tell us about some deep, emotional traumas, beliefs, identities and ideas that sit in our subconscious mind and prevent us from getting what we want. They show us exactly what to deal with in order to finally have the life we always dreamed about!

But what do most people do about these feelings? They become overwhelmed by them, so they block them. 

Imagine you did the same thing with your car. If you ignored the warning lights, your car would soon be broken. Yet that’s what most people have been doing to themselves all their lives. 

They ignore the warning lights that try to focus your attention on the real, deep issue that’s holding them back!

This, my friend, is the biggest revelation that changed my entire life. And it was my key to helping 160,361 people who came to me for help.

Follow it, and you’ll experience your own breakthroughs, too.

All those feelings we experience when we focus on things we want, they’re our BEST FRIENDS!

Why? 

You see, when your car is broken, it shows you a warning light, right?

You see it and you know it’s time to fix your car. 

Well, all these unwanted feelings are like these warning lights.

Whenever we feel them, they tell us about the REAL reason why we’re not getting what we want. 

They tell us about some deep, emotional traumas, beliefs, identities and ideas that sit in our subconscious mind and prevent us from getting what we want.

They show us exactly what to deal with in order to finally have the life we always dreamed about!

But what do most people do about these feelings? They become overwhelmed by them, so they block them. 

Imagine you did the same thing with your car.

If you ignored the warning lights, your car would soon be broken.

Yet that’s what most people have been doing to themselves all their lives. 

They ignore the warning lights that try to focus your attention on the real, deep issue that’s holding them back!

This, my friend, is the biggest revelation that changed my entire life.

And it was my key to helping 160,361 people who came to me for help.

Follow it, and you’ll experience your own breakthroughs, too.

This insight comes from my bestselling book, “Break Your Self-Help Addiction” and is just one of many life-changing techniques I share in it.

That’s why readers are so thrilled with my book, they left 312+ five-star reviews on Amazon.

If you want to get a proven path to getting what you want that has helped over 160,367 people from 84 countries - “Break Your Self-Help Addiction” is for you.

Brian D. Ridgway

About the Author

Brian D. Ridgway "The Spellbreaker". A #1 Bestselling Spiritual Author, a Mentor and a Guide.

His unique guidance has helped over 160,361 people from 84 countries - including tens of thousands of women struggling with their relationships. 

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