How to Ask the Universe for Love and Receive it

July 25, 2021
By Brian D. Ridgway

“I’ve been asking the universe for love for over two decades - yet I’ve never experienced true love in my life. What am I doing wrong?”

This is one of the most common questions I receive from women who come across my content. The short answer is - there’s never anything wrong with them. It’s just that, with all love and respect, asking this question doesn’t make sense. And this is the true reason why these ladies stay stuck in sadness and frustration for years.

“I’ve been asking the universe for love for over two decades - yet I’ve never experienced true love in my life.

What am I doing wrong?”

This is one of the most common questions I receive from women who come across my content.

The short answer is - there’s never anything wrong with them.

It’s just that, with all love and respect, asking this question doesn’t make sense.

And this is the true reason why these ladies stay stuck in sadness and frustration for years.

Ask the Universe for Love

Asking the universe for love isn’t going to change your life. In this article, I show you why - and what to do instead.

Let me show you why that is. After that, I’ll offer you a simple change of perspective that will probably make a world of a difference for you.

Do You Ask the Universe for Love? Then Stop!

I assume that if you’re asking the question “How do I ask the Universe for love?” - you’re somewhat familiar with the Law of Attraction. And, perhaps, you consider yourself a spiritual or awakening woman.

If that’s true, then you’ve probably heard about Oneness. It’s a concept that tells us that we’re all part of one Unlimited Being of Energy that created the universe and everything that exists.

If you’re familiar with it, that’s awesome. If not, that’s awesome, too. Just approach this with an open mind and I’m sure everything will make sense to you.

So, if we’re One with everything that exists . . . wouldn’t it mean we’re also One with the Universe?

I mean, if the universe is created by the same Unlimited Being that we are part of . . . 

And if it’s created from the same energy that we are, it makes logical sense to say that we are the Universe.

So when it comes to asking the Universe for love - we are, in fact, asking ourselves.

I assume that if you’re asking the question “How do I ask the Universe for love?” - you’re somewhat familiar with the Law of Attraction.

And, perhaps, you consider yourself a spiritual or awakening woman.

If that’s true, then you’ve probably heard about Oneness.

It’s a concept that tells us that we’re all part of one Unlimited Being of Energy that created the universe and everything that exists.

If you’re familiar with it, that’s awesome. If not, that’s awesome, too.

Just approach this with an open mind and I’m sure everything will make sense to you.

So, if we’re One with everything that exists . . . wouldn’t it mean we’re also One with the Universe?

I mean, if the universe is created by the same Unlimited Being that we are part of . . . 

And if it’s created from the same energy that we are, it makes logical sense to say that we are the Universe.

So when it comes to asking the Universe for love - we are, in fact, asking ourselves.

If we are One with everything that exists. . . does it mean that the Universe is us?

If we are One with everything that exists. . . does it mean that the Universe is us?

When we ask the Universe for love - we ask the Unlimited part of OURselves to give us what we want. It’s a huge shift in how you approach this. Yet it doesn’t change the fact that, still, you’re not going to receive love.

There’s one more shift waiting for you. Let me show you what it is.

When we ask the Universe for love - we ask the Unlimited part of OURselves to give us what we want.

It’s a huge shift in how you approach this. Yet it doesn’t change the fact that, still, you’re not going to receive love.

There’s one more shift waiting for you. Let me show you what it is.

What Blocks Your Natural Ability to Manifest Love? Check your Love Manifestation Score and in 35 seconds, discover which aspect of your being is blocking your ability to manifest love. You’ll also find out how to unlock it.

What Blocks Your Natural Ability to Manifest Love?

Check your Love Manifestation Score and in 35 seconds, discover which aspect of your being is blocking your ability to manifest love.

You’ll also find out how to unlock it.

Why Asking The Universe for Love Gets You Nowhere

Let’s compare the Universe to your body. What will happen if you start eating loads of sugar, fast foods, drinking booze every day and smoking?

Well, you’ll most likely gain weight, you’ll become tired, you’ll look older. Maybe your hair will start falling off. In other words, your body will reflect your actions.

Believe it or not, the universe works in a very similar way. It reflects your deep, mostly unconscious emotional state. Your unconscious thoughts, beliefs and feelings.

It doesn’t bring you what you want, just as your body is not losing pounds because you ask for it. In order to lose weight, you have to adjust your diet and, perhaps, start moving a bit.

After a few weeks, if you’re consistent, you’ll see the result.

Well, guess what? The universe also works just like that! Because the Universe is, in fact, your energetic body. It constantly reflects the feelings and emotions that you unconsciously feel every day. Those feelings and emotions are just like the food you eat which then reflects on your health.

And if you want to receive love (or anything else) - you have to take care of these unconscious feelings, emotions, thoughts and beliefs first. Because the Universe doesn’t reflect what you ask for. It reflects WHO you are.

In the same way, your physical body doesn’t reflect your wishes of being thin and lean. It reflects what you eat, how much you exercise and how you treat it!

Let’s compare the Universe to your body.

What will happen if you start eating loads of sugar, fast foods, drinking booze every day and smoking?

Well, you’ll most likely gain weight, you’ll become tired, you’ll look older.

Maybe your hair will start falling off. In other words, your body will reflect your actions.

Believe it or not, the universe works in a very similar way.

It reflects your deep, mostly unconscious emotional state. Your unconscious thoughts, beliefs and feelings.

It doesn’t bring you what you want, just as your body is not losing pounds because you ask for it.

In order to lose weight, you have to adjust your diet and, perhaps, start moving a bit.

After a few weeks, if you’re consistent, you’ll see the result.

Well, guess what? The universe also works just like that! Because the Universe is, in fact, your energetic body.

It constantly reflects the feelings and emotions that you unconsciously feel every day.

Those feelings and emotions are just like the food you eat which then reflects on your health.

And if you want to receive love (or anything else) - you have to take care of these unconscious feelings, emotions, thoughts and beliefs first.

Because the Universe doesn’t reflect what you ask for. It reflects WHO you are.

In the same way, your physical body doesn’t reflect your wishes of being thin and lean.

It reflects what you eat, how much you exercise and how you treat it!

The Universe doesn’t respond to your wishes.

The Universe doesn’t respond to your wishes. It reflects WHO you are. It gives you experiences that are in line with your unconscious emotional state.

You might want to read this article a few times to let this information sink in. Because when you accept it, you’ll have THE most powerful tool to change your entire life.

Making this shift in your mind is like turning a key in a door. It unlocks your natural ability to manifest love. And you weren’t able to do this up until now, because your mind and your perception of reality were holding you back.

Before we wrap up, I want to talk about a simple way to release those unconscious emotions, feelings and beliefs which constantly make the Universe reflect what you don’t want.

You might want to read this article a few times to let this information sink in.

Because when you accept it, you’ll have THE most powerful tool to change your entire life.

Making this shift in your mind is like turning a key in a door. It unlocks your natural ability to manifest love.

And you weren’t able to do this up until now, because your mind and your perception of reality were holding you back.

Before we wrap up, I want to talk about a simple way to release those unconscious emotions, feelings and beliefs which constantly make the Universe reflect what you don’t want.

How to Unlock Your Ability to Manifest Love

When it comes to unwanted feelings or emotions, most people try to block them. When they feel fear, they suppress it. The same with sadness, frustration or any other emotion.

What they don’t know is that these emotions are our guides. When they show up, they’re showing us that there’s some unconscious belief, story or identity behind this emotion. 

And when you let it be . . . And when you feel it, you might suddenly remember an event from your childhood that shaped this emotion in you. You might feel tension in your body when you do this. Just accept it and let your emotions guide you.

When you find the story that caused this feeling or emotion in your life the first time, share love with your inner child. Because if something traumatic happened to you when you were 5 years old, that part of you is still alive in your mind.

Somewhere in your mind is a 5-year-old girl who’s deeply hurt and terrified. Who craves love yet never gets it. My recommendation is that you acknowledge that part of yourself and talk to your inner child with love.

Tell the kid within you that all is well. That she’s infinitely loved. That she’s 100% perfect just the way she is. That there’s no danger and she’s safe.

And I really recommend you do this while breathing deeply. Inhale through your nose. Exhale through your mouth. Breathe with your belly, not with your chest.

When you make this a habit. When you start consciously approaching your feelings. When you become curious about them instead of blocking them . . .

You’ll release dozens of those unconscious emotions, feelings and beliefs that reflect the lack of love in your life. And in their place, you’ll put feelings of love, connection, intimacy, passion - and whatever it is that you want.

And I’m pretty sure you won’t believe how dramatically your life will change. You have the tool now. You know how to use it. And the inner child within you desperately craves your attention.

Will you do this FOR yourself?

When it comes to unwanted feelings or emotions, most people try to block them.

When they feel fear, they suppress it. The same with sadness, frustration or any other emotion.

What they don’t know is that these emotions are our guides.

When they show up, they’re showing us that there’s some unconscious belief, story or identity behind this emotion. 

And when you let it be . . .

And when you feel it, you might suddenly remember an event from your childhood that shaped this emotion in you. 

You might feel tension in your body when you do this. Just accept it and let your emotions guide you.

When you find the story that caused this feeling or emotion in your life the first time, share love with your inner child.

Because if something traumatic happened to you when you were 5 years old, that part of you is still alive in your mind.

Somewhere in your mind is a 5-year-old girl who’s deeply hurt and terrified. Who craves love yet never gets it.

My recommendation is that you acknowledge that part of yourself and talk to your inner child with love.

Tell the kid within you that all is well. That she’s infinitely loved.

That she’s 100% perfect just the way she is. That there’s no danger and she’s safe.

And I really recommend you do this while breathing deeply. Inhale through your nose.

Exhale through your mouth. Breathe with your belly, not with your chest.

When you make this a habit. When you start consciously approaching your feelings.

When you become curious about them instead of blocking them . . .

You’ll release dozens of those unconscious emotions, feelings and beliefs that reflect the lack of love in your life.

And in their place, you’ll put feelings of love, connection, intimacy, passion - and whatever it is that you want.

And I’m pretty sure you won’t believe how dramatically your life will change.

You have the tool now. You know how to use it. And the inner child within you desperately craves your attention.

Will you do this FOR yourself?

What Blocks Your Natural Ability to Manifest Love?

Do you find it hard to manifest happiness and love? Then checking your Love Manifestation Score will show you what is holding you back.

Checking your score is free and takes about 35 seconds. Take it and you’ll discover which of the three aspects of your being is blocking your natural ability to manifest love. You’ll also find out how to unlock it and manifest all the love, connection and intimacy you deserve.

Do you find it hard to manifest happiness and love?

Then checking your Love Manifestation Score will show you what is holding you back.

Checking your score is free and takes about 35 seconds.

Take it and you’ll discover which of the three aspects of your being is blocking your natural ability to manifest love

You’ll also find out how to unlock it and manifest all the love, connection and intimacy you deserve.

Brian D. Ridgway

About the Author

Brian D. Ridgway "The Spellbreaker". A #1 Bestselling Spiritual Author, a Mentor and a Guide.

His unique guidance has helped over 160,361 people from 84 countries - including tens of thousands of women struggling with their relationships

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