The Law of Attraction and Relationships . . . Does it Really Work?

July 9, 2021
By Brian D. Ridgway

The Law of Attraction is a beautiful concept. We all love it when we hear about it the first time. Yet there are millions of women who try to use it to improve their relationships - and see no difference whatsoever.

The Law of Attraction is a beautiful concept. We all love it when we hear about it the first time.

Yet there are millions of women who try to use it to improve their relationships - and see no difference whatsoever.

Law of Attraction and Relationships . . .

This is when they usually become confused and start wondering what’s going on. Some women think there’s something wrong with them - and they blame themselves. Some practice the Law of Attraction more and more. And some doubt whether it actually works.

So if at least one of these applies to you . . . 

If you’re asking yourself “the Law of Attraction and relationships - does it really work?” - then this article is for you. Especially, if you consider yourself “spiritual”, “conscious” or in the process of “awakening”.

Based on my experience with tens of thousands of women who have worked with me - I’ll show you why the Law of Attraction doesn’t work for you - and what you can do to make it work. Let’s start with me reminding you who you really are.

This is when they usually become confused and start wondering what’s going on.

Some women think there’s something wrong with them - and they blame themselves.

Some practice the Law of Attraction more and more. And some doubt whether it actually works.

So if at least one of these applies to you . . . 

If you’re asking yourself “the Law of Attraction and relationships - does it really work?” - then this article is for you.

Especially, if you consider yourself “spiritual”, “conscious” or in the process of “awakening”.

Based on my experience with tens of thousands of women who have worked with me - I’ll show you why the Law of Attraction doesn’t work for you - and what you can do to make it work.

Let’s start with me reminding you who you really are.

Your True Nature - And How it Relates to the “Law of Attraction”

If you’re spiritual, then you’re probably familiar with the concept of Oneness, right? We are all created from the same energy of love. You, me, your home and everything else - from the tiniest particle to the biggest star - everything is built from energy.

In fact, great minds in human history and quantum physicists agree that this is true:

Albert Einstein said, “Concerning matter, we have been all wrong. There is no matter.”

Niels Bohr, a Nobel Prize Winner said, “Everything we call real is made of things that cannot be regarded as real.”

Nikola Tesla, said, “If you wish to understand the Universe, think of energy, frequency and vibration.“

So the fact that we are all created from the same energy . . . and that we are One with everything that exists . . . has a huge impact on the concept known as the “Law of Attraction”.

Let me explain.

If you’re spiritual, then you’re probably familiar with the concept of Oneness, right?

We are all created from the same energy of love.

You, me, your home and everything else - from the tiniest particle to the biggest star - everything is built from energy.

In fact, great minds in human history and quantum physicists agree that this is true:

Albert Einstein said, “Concerning matter, we have been all wrong. There is no matter.”

Niels Bohr, a Nobel Prize Winner said, “Everything we call real is made of things that cannot be regarded as real.”

Nikola Tesla, said, “If you wish to understand the Universe, think of energy, frequency and vibration.“

So the fact that we are all created from the same energy . . . and that we are One with everything that exists . . . has a huge impact on the concept known as the “Law of Attraction”.

Let me explain.

Law of Attraction and Relationships - the Definite Reason Why it Doesn’t Work

If we are One . . . If everything’s made from the same energy . . . If we are connected to every other human being . . . every single atom and all the tiniest particles in the entire universe . . .

Then how in the world can we “attract” something that is already us?

If I asked you to attract your hand - you’d laugh at me. Your hand is already there. There’s nothing to attract.

Well, in the same way, there’s no point in focusing on “attracting” loving relationships, amazing guys or anything else . . . because they’re already there!

They’re all parts of our energetic bodies. They’re us. Hence, we can’t attract them, just as we can’t attract a hand.

I mean - if you were able to attract anything . . . then why would you need to read this article? If the idea of attracting was true, you’d automatically attract all the love you ever wanted.

I know the idea of “attraction” is widely accepted and very popular. I know just about every guru out there is selling it.   

For nearly 20 years, I believed it! (And, of course, I was pretty much always frustrated about my lack of results!)

But today, I work with thousands of women around the world who came to me after decades of trying to master the supposed “Law of Attraction” . . . Yet were still totally stuck and frustrated. 

So if that describes you - this is the ultimate reason for your stuckness and frustration!

Now, let me show you a way to manifesting love and an amazing relationship that is 100% in line with your true nature.

If we are One . . . If everything’s made from the same energy . . . If we are connected to every other human being . . . every single atom and all the tiniest particles in the entire universe . . .

Then how in the world can we “attract” something that is already us?

If I asked you to attract your hand - you’d laugh at me. Your hand is already there. There’s nothing to attract.

Well, in the same way, there’s no point in focusing on “attracting” loving relationships, amazing guys or anything else . . . because they’re already there!

They’re all parts of our energetic bodies. They’re us. Hence, we can’t attract them, just as we can’t attract a hand.

I mean - if you were able to attract anything . . . then why would you need to read this article? If the idea of attracting was true, you’d automatically attract all the love you ever wanted.

I know the idea of “attraction” is widely accepted and very popular. I know just about every guru out there is selling it.   

For nearly 20 years, I believed it! (And, of course, I was pretty much always frustrated about my lack of results!)

But today, I work with thousands of women around the world who came to me after decades of trying to master the supposed “Law of Attraction” . . . Yet were still totally stuck and frustrated. 

So if that describes you - this is the ultimate reason for your stuckness and frustration!

Now, let me show you a way to manifesting love and an amazing relationship that is 100% in line with your true nature.

Do You Love the Law of Attraction yet still struggle with your intimate relationship?

If we are One . . . If everything’s made from the same energy . . .

If we are connected to every other human being . . . every single atom and all the tiniest particles in the entire universe . . .

Then how in the world can we “attract” something that is already us?

If I asked you to attract your hand - you’d laugh at me. Your hand is already there. There’s nothing to attract.

Well, in the same way, there’s no point in focusing on “attracting” loving relationships, amazing guys or anything else . . . because they’re already there!

They’re all parts of our energetic bodies. They’re us. Hence, we can’t attract them, just as we can’t attract a hand.

I mean - if you were able to attract anything . . . then why would you need to read this article?

If the idea of attracting was true, you’d automatically attract all the love you ever wanted.

I know the idea of “attraction” is widely accepted and very popular. I know just about every guru out there is selling it.   

For nearly 20 years, I believed it! (And, of course, I was pretty much always frustrated about my lack of results!)

But today, I work with thousands of women around the world who came to me after decades of trying to master the supposed “Law of Attraction” . . .

Yet were still totally stuck and frustrated. 

So if that describes you - this is the ultimate reason for your stuckness and frustration!

Now, let me show you a way to manifesting love and an amazing relationship that is 100% in line with your true nature.

If Attraction Doesn't Work . . . Then What?

I propose that our reality works like a mirror - it reflects everything that we think and believe. The thing is though - most of these beliefs sit in our subconscious mind and are so deep - we don’t even know we have them.

Let me show you an example.

If you find yourself struggling with relationships. If you’re constantly arguing with your guy and repeating the same patterns in your relationship . . . it means you deeply believe this is your reality.

You either have unconscious beliefs that you’re unworthy. Or that men are jerks. Or that being in a relationship is a constant fight. Or anything in between. Some call these limiting beliefs, negative feelings or negative thoughts. But they’re much deeper than that.

These deep, unconscious “knowings” constantly work in the background. And they constantly reflect in your life situations that prove these ideas to be true. They affect your decisions, your thoughts and feelings and all your reactions to different situations.

For example, they push you to comment on your boyfriend’s behavior in ways that bring up his anger, or “cause” him to be emotionally distant. Or they push you to hide your needs and feelings - because you unconsciously believe you’re unworthy. And so on, and so forth.

When I explain this to women who work with me, I see their eyes opening wider as they nod their heads in agreement - because this makes perfect sense. We think we’re creating our reality - while it’s our deepest of the deepest beliefs, ideas and emotions that rule our lives.

I propose that our reality works like a mirror - it reflects everything that we think and believe.

The thing is though - most of these beliefs sit in our subconscious mind and are so deep - we don’t even know we have them.

Let me show you an example.

If you find yourself struggling with relationships.

If you’re constantly arguing with your guy and repeating the same patterns in your relationship . . . it means you deeply believe this is your reality.

You either have unconscious beliefs that you’re unworthy. Or that men are jerks. Or that being in a relationship is a constant fight.

Or anything in between. Some call these limiting beliefs, negative feelings or negative thoughts. But they’re much deeper than that.

These deep, unconscious “knowings” constantly work in the background.

And they constantly reflect in your life situations that prove these ideas to be true.

They affect your decisions, your thoughts and feelings and all your reactions to different situations.

For example, they push you to comment on your boyfriend’s behavior in ways that bring up his anger, or “cause” him to be emotionally distant.

Or they push you to hide your needs and feelings - because you unconsciously believe you’re unworthy. And so on, and so forth.

When I explain this to women who work with me, I see their eyes opening wider as they nod their heads in agreement - because this makes perfect sense.

We think we’re creating our reality - while it’s our deepest of the deepest beliefs, ideas and emotions that rule our lives.

The conclusion?

To sum everything up, the Law of Attraction and similar manifestation techniques are in opposition to our true nature. While the “law of reflection” fits it perfectly!

And that’s the single biggest reason why so many women struggle with the Law of Attraction and relationships.

And if that’s your case, it’s not your fault. No one told you that the concept of LoA is fundamentally flawed. So no matter how hard you practiced it, it would never work.

In fact, raising your vibration won’t help either - because your unconscious beliefs will “override” it. They’re constantly telling the universe to manifest everything that’s in line with them - not what you truly want. 

The things you can focus on from now on are your deep beliefs, thoughts and suppressed emotions. They’re the real reasons for your relationship struggles.

And once you dissolve them and let go of them, your entire reality will change. Many people describe this process as a miracle - yet this is a natural response of the universe. 

Remember - we don’t attract anything. We reflect what we unconsciously think and believe. We do this in line with our true nature.

This discovery can make a lifetime of difference in your life - faster and more effortlessly than you probably think possible. It’s the key to manifesting love in your life.

To sum everything up, the Law of Attraction and similar manifestation techniques are in opposition to our true nature.

While the “law of reflection” fits it perfectly!

And that’s the single biggest reason why so many women struggle with the Law of Attraction and relationships.

And if that’s your case, it’s not your fault. No one told you that the concept of LoA is fundamentally flawed.

So no matter how hard you practiced it, it would never work.

In fact, raising your vibration won’t help either - because your unconscious beliefs will “override” it.

They’re constantly telling the universe to manifest everything that’s in line with them - not what you truly want. 

The things you can focus on from now on are your deep beliefs, thoughts and suppressed emotions.

They’re the real reasons for your relationship struggles.

And once you dissolve them and let go of them, your entire reality will change.

Many people describe this process as a miracle - yet this is a natural response of the universe. 

Remember - we don’t attract anything.

We reflect what we unconsciously think and believe. We do this in line with our true nature.

This discovery can make a lifetime of difference in your life - faster and more effortlessly than you probably think possible.

It’s the key to manifesting love in your life.

Do You Love the Law of Attraction yet still struggle with your intimate relationship?

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Brian D. Ridgway

About the Author

Brian D. Ridgway "The Spellbreaker". A #1 Bestselling Spiritual Author, a Mentor and a Guide.

His unique guidance has helped over 160,361 people from 84 countries - including tens of thousands of women struggling with their relationships

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